Taking this assessment is your first step toward extending the olive branch

This takes about 5 minutes. It's not a test — there are no wrong answers. It's a compass to help you understand your readiness for reconnection, and to honor what it means to try.

"The hardest step is always the first one. Just by being here, you've already shown more courage than you know."

At the end, you'll receive a personalized reconciliation plan and message templates crafted for your specific situation.

Your privacy matters. Your responses are private. We don't share them, and you can complete this anonymously.

First, tell us about you

Which best describes your situation?

This helps us personalize your journey and the language we use.

I'm a parent

wanting to reconnect with my adult child

I'm an adult child

considering reconnecting with a parent

I'm a sibling

wanting to reconnect with my brother or sister

Each question grows your olive branch

Your Readiness Score

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out of 100

You've taken the hardest step. Now extend the olive branch.

Reconciliation takes two. Invite your family member to take their own assessment — so you can understand each other, not just yourselves.

Send an Invitation

or

Continue to see your full results first →

"The most powerful thing you can do right now is let them know you reached out — before you say a single word."

Both sides have taken
the first step.

Your perspective has been shared privately. Once both of you have told your stories, Rekindle's AI will offer each of you personalized coaching — completely private, completely honest.

See Your Results

"The courage it takes to show up honestly — that's where reconciliation begins."

Your olive branch is growing

We're reading your responses and building a personalized path forward — crafted just for you.

Reflecting on your journey...